So...I'm getting married. I've mentioned it a few times on here, but I haven't formally introduced the three of you to Kim. Kim is gonna marry me. And, just so you know, I have given her plenty of time to sober up and change her mind. She still says she's going to marry me.
I met Kim on eHarmony. As you can see in an earlier post, I was not a big fan of dating. And, by not a big fan, I mean I hated it. I had a couple potentials, if you will, but nothing that ended up being much. I even got dumped twice by the same person. That's how awesome I am.
So...I meet Kim on eHarmony and we're chatting and having a good time. Then, I get all busy and stuff, and my cat dies, and I hate women and I travel, and I just kinda figure she's just another one that won't amount to much. But, what the heck. I'll give this one last girl a shot before turning off the dating profile for a bit and just spending some time enjoying life as a single dad.
We go on a date. But, this date wasn't quite like the other dates. It was instantly comfortable. Like, instantly. I showed up late because I got caught up at work. So, I went in nervous (I hate being late). She was already chillin' with a drink. She got up, gave me an amazing perfect smile, with her cute little dimples, and gave me a big hug. And, we started chatting.
Now, on other dates, it was awkward discussion until our time was up and we would give awkward hugs before going home (I have a dog, you see. He needs to pee). However, this time, the time to leave was coming up. But, I didn't want to go! I did something I hadn't done before on a date. I called the neighbor and asked her to let Quincy out for me!
Fast forward. We date, it's fun. We find excuses to see each other. Like, oh, hey...you're leaving town. How about if I hike my ass over to your side of the lake in the middle of traffic so we can have coffee before your flight. Or...hey...why don't you come over to my office and we can grab lunch in the middle of the day.
About 2 months (or so) in, I decide to introduce her to Desmond. See, possibly one of my biggest criteria in finding a partner is how this person interacts with Desmond. I may get along great with them, but if they don't like my kid (or if my kid doesn't like them), I don't plan to waste a ton of time with this person. Kim was originally introduced as "Daddy's friend Kim." To say Desi took well to her is an understatement.
Grandma was in town at the same time. So, we were going to introduce both the kid AND the mother. Talk about pressure for Kim.
We went to The Old Spaghetti Factory. Classy, I know. Mom, Des and I arrived first. Mom and Des sat at one side of the table. I sat on the other with the empty chair saved for Kim.
Kim arrives. Desi leans over to Grandma and whispers something. Grandma says "Oh," and looks at me.
"Desmond says he wants me to trade places with Kim," says Grandma.
Kid made one of his favorite people in the world move for the new girl.
Anyway, fast forward past multiple more dates, concerts, shows, hand holding, schmoopy eyes, etc and I decide to invite Kim on our Hawaii trip. I mean, Des loves her, my parents love her. And, what do you know, I love her to. So, let's take this trip.
Well, many of you may have noticed that this whole thing moved pretty fast. I started getting inklings of, Dang...I think I could marry this girl. Those inklings got stronger and stronger. Until finally, I decided, Yeah...I'm gonna do this. This girl is awesome. Why wouldn't I want to marry her? Everything fits! Everything is right! And, we're not getting any younger. As a very wise philosopher once said, "If you like it then you gotta put a ring on it." So, I bought a ring.
What better place to pop the question than in paradise. So, we went out for some cocktails, took a walk at the marina and I popped the question.
Funny story, I had this routine that I had planned. I'm not going to tell you what it was because it was totally hokey and schmoopy (I've always wanted to use the word schmoopy twice in a post). But, it didn't involve putting the ring on her finger, simply in her hand. So, she gets really excited, says yes (I triple checked) starts crying and throws her arms around me. Unbeknownst to me, she slips the ring on her finger somewhere in this process. I pulled out of the hug and reached for the hand that I put the ring in. The ring wasn't there! OH MY GOD!!! THE DIAMOND RING HAS FALLEN INTO THE PACIFIC OCEAN!!!!
No no, it's ok. It's on her finger. WHEW!
Anyway, we're officially getting hitched in June. We're going back to Maui! Why? Well, we discovered that it's actually not THAT much more expensive to get married in Hawaii as opposed to somewhere in Washington. Weddings are expensive, no matter what. We could cross our fingers that it doesn't rain on us and find a place that is nice enough but not bank breaking. Or...instead of breaking the bank in Washington, let's break it in Maui!!!!
Some pics below. If you want to follow along on the wedding details, check out our website: http://www.pankomine.com. Please note: being aware of this website does NOT mean you're invited!!! Kim won't let me post it on Facebook because she doesn't want everyone to assume they're invited. So, there! I just told you you're not invited! Unless you are invited. In which case, you probably already know.
She's a real winner. We've got ourselves a good thing going on. Hurray for 2nd chances!
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