No really. Maybe it only sucks when you're 35 (almost 36 *GASP*). But, it certainly sucks. I thought I managed to avoid most of this by, you know...getting married. But, life had other plans in mind, I guess.
So...let me tell you a little about dating.
First of all...there is no time for it. I'm busy at work. I only get to see my kid for 50% of his life, so there is no way I am giving up the time I get to hang out with some new person. Throw into that soccer practice, church, evening work events, time with friends who don't get to see you very much anymore...and that basically leaves me with Thursday night.
Second...it's expensive! Etiquette dictates that the man gets the first check. That's cool. But, I am told I need to see lots of people since I spent my whole life with just 1. That's a lot of first freakin' checks. AND...I was raised to be a gentleman which makes it literally painful to not pay for everything! I know that is tacky and SOOOOOOO not 2013. But, that doesn't mean that part of me isn't screaming inside when I say, "Ok, yes you pay this time." Especially when these ladies probably make more money than I do.
Third...it's stress! Dating is more stressful than my job. When can we meet, where should we go, what do I say, did that thing I just said come off wrong, omg...I have to go to the bathroom, is there something in my teeth, someone in this restaurant farted and I bet she thinks it was me, I really want the blue cheese double bacon cheeseburger but that won't impress the lady, are those my feet I'm smelling, am I supposed to kiss her goodnight, am I drinking too much, what if I don't like her, what if I DO like her and she doesn't like me? Anyway...you get the point.
I put myself "on the market" in January or February. Took a break for about a month or so because I wasn't really getting into it. Maybe my divorce was still too fresh, I don't know. So far, there have been 2 potentials, but nothing serious and neither of those worked. So...it's back to the drawing board. Back to first dates. Back to "3 questions to dig deeper" on eHarmony. Blech.
I think I'm going to be a priest.
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