Having worked at one company, largely on one team, even, you get to know your coworkers really really well. Likewise, they get to know you! They get to know all your quirks as well as all your strengths and weaknesses.
It struck me recently, as I am getting to know my new team, that my methods may confuse some people. They may seem odd. Or, to put it better...they may seem annoying.
You see, I have ADD. Like, the real ADD. Not that, "Oh my, I am soooooo ADD" kind of ADD that people like to say they have when they forget to do something or to explain why they talk so much. My ADD is legit.
What does this mean? Well, for one, it means I am almost always moving. Movement can come in a variety of ways. It could mean I am getting out of my seat. It could mean I am bopping to the music I am listening to. Or, the one that is usually most noticed and certainly most annoying, it could mean my legs are bouncing almost non-stop during meetings.
You see, I am typically able to manage my ADD. However, I think it requires an outlet. I believe this outlet comes in the form of constant bouncing or fidgeting. The good news is...if I am bouncing, it usually means I am paying attention! If I am not bouncing...well, chances are good that you have lost me and I am actually wondering if snails have a sense of smell.
Another thing about me...I almost never bring my laptop to meetings. To some, this may seem like I am unprepared. But, really...unless I am presenting something, why do I need my laptop at a meeting. One of my biggest pet peeves at work is when people sit there clicky clacking on their laptops while someone else is talking. Someone took the time to meet with you and they have information that they think is valuable enough to share and you sit there sending mail, or worse, looking at Facebook.
Also...I distract easy. If I have something in my space that can easily pull me away from paying attention to something, you can bet your bottom I will eventually find my way to that thing. It's not personal...it's just part of who I am. So, I eliminate the distraction by not bringing my laptop. I will bring a pad of paper and a pen and that's about it. Any action items I have will be written on that pad and transferred to my task list later. Double work? Maybe...but more efficient in the long run.
Finally...I talk to myself. I actually didn't realize how much I talk to myself until I took this new job. I seem to talk to myself quite a bit. It helps me think. Maybe I am a schizophrenic. Point is...I talk to myself. And, I often have headphones on, so I have no idea how loud I am. Sorry about that.
That's all! Have fun working with me!
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